STC April 2009

In this issue:

Hello!

Feature article ~ What to do when your reality doesn’t match
your vision

Coach update

Mark Recommends ~ Education Celebration

A Note From the Coach

The success journey continues to be fascinating.

As I look back over the last year or so, I can’t help but be amazed at the amazing people who came into my life, and the difference they made. (I appreciate you all).

The interesting part is my role in the process - or, more specifically, the lack thereof. It’s all synchronicity.

A dear friend of mine inspired my article in this issue of Success Together. She asked “How do you keep your perspective when you’re not quite where you want to be?”

Sounds good to me.

Be successful - together

Mark
Coach@successfultogethercoaching.com

Feature Article

What to do when your reality doesn’t match your vision

Have you ever had the realization that there is a greater purpose for your life than that which you are currently experiencing?

It’s not that your life is bad right now, nor that you’re unhappy or discontent. It’s more a feeling that you’re not quite fulfilled.

Does this sound familiar?

The truth is that when you open up to the possibilities that are out there, you will never be the same again.

And, the more you learn and experience, the more you want.

You develop a clear image in your mind of the fulfilling life experience that you desire. It energizes you to just think about it. And, you know that it is happening for you.

Being connected to the vision of that which you desire is a crucial step in making your vision your reality.

Until that happens, your current reality is where you exist and operate. In essence, it’s the life you’re currently living.

Although you know it’s not about being focused on where you’re at, it can be interesting to stay in the space of where you want to be, while living your current life.

Especially when time is going by and it doesn’t feel like you are any closer to that which you truly desire.

Unfortunately, too many people decide that things aren’t going to change and they give up on their dreams to merely exist in their current reality.

So, what can you do?

The key is to be in the moment. More specifically, to be in the best possible space in this moment. Your life, business or relationship may not be in the optimal space right now, but you can be.

If you are focused on what is wrong or missing, guess what happens? If you are in the space of what is right and what you have to be grateful for – right now – you are aligning yourself with the right energy.

It is imperative to be clear and focused on what you want and where you want to be. Be careful to experience it as what is unfolding for you, and not a reflection of where you are not.

Remember always that what is meant for you cannot be lost.

As Marianne Williamson says “Go where you’re wanted, go where you belong.” If you are not in alignment with what you are focused on, ie: it’s not really optimal for you, you will either struggle unnecessarily, or you will not feel fulfilled when you achieve it.

Have you ever wanted to have something specific, or be a member of a certain group? Only to find out when you achieved it, that it really wasn’t that big a deal to you?

Being in alignment with that which you truly desire – that which is truly meant for you – is a key to being in the flow of manifesting it.

To stay connected with where your journey is going, feed it. You are receiving input from your current reality and daily life constantly. You know what happens if you are constantly exposed to negativity and that which does not serve you.

The simple act of choosing more optimal inputs will assist you in maintaining your desired space. The more you align yourself with energy that feeds your soul, your passion and your vision, the less negative energy you will absorb, and the more empowered and energized you will feel.

If your vision & dreams seem cloudy or distant, it may be because you are allowing your mind to get cluttered with that which obscures it.

Essentially, this is all about you. Find time to take care of you. To clear your mind and detoxify from the negative energy. To feed yourself that which allows you to see your dream more clearly.

Be mindful of who you interact with on a regular basis. It is said that you will be like the average of the 5 people you hang out with the most. Are you interacting with like-minded, positive, empowered people who see the world & future the way that you do? Or are you around people who are essentially toxic to you?

Makes you think, doesn’t it?

It is empowering also to remember each day that you are choosing. Regardless of where you are currently at, or what is happening in your life, if you are feeling like you are stuck, you are giving your power away. When you come from a space of choosing, you remain in your power and you stay connected with the right energy.

If you are doing all of the above and you still feel that your journey is not unfolding the way you desire, then it may be time to get an outside opinion. Connect with a coach or expert who you feel synergy with and allow them to assist you get clear on your opportunity.

Know always that there is never anything wrong. You simply do the best you can with that which you have at hand. As you learn more and as your awareness expands, you simply make more empowered decisions. It’s called experience, and there is only one way to get it.

No matter what, you simply are where you are right now - in this moment. It’s what is coming next that is the opportunity for change.

Be in the best possible space & energy in this moment, be clear on that which you desire and trust the process. Which includes the timing.

Enjoy your journey.

Mark Semple CCC
www.successfultogethercoaching.com

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Mark Recommends

Direct Selling Women's Alliance
Education Celebration 2009

What if I told you I know for a fact that one event will radically
change the way you do business and give you amazing results?

This event is the DSWA Celebration 2009 and I invite you to
join me and hundreds of Direct Selling professionals in Los
Angeles April 17-19, 2009!

You can register now by copy and pasting this link into your
internet browser: www.dswa.org/1.html?p=ms85&w=reg09

The DSWA has invited top speakers and authors, who will empower your life and your business! The DSWA Celebration has earned the reputation as a "must-attend" experience for all direct sellers and network marketing professionals! If you are looking to truly "Build it Big" this year, then plan on attending this life-enhancing event!

This year's event will feature amazing leaders such as Lisa Nichols,
Best-selling Author, Speaker, and coach, Sandra Yancey of E-Womens Network, Nicki Keohohou, CEO of the DSWA, Miriam Mulley the new chair of the DSWA Diversity Center, and a host of experts sharing their wisdom and experience in special breakout sessions and on the Mavens Panel, Diversity Panel and in breakout sessions.

I will be speaking on my favorite topic: Success together & Powerful Partnerships.

Now, more than ever with today's challenging economy, entrepreneurs can take the lead by honing their skills and maximizing the impact they have on today's economy and turn the corner for a brighter and prosperous future! This event is ideal for all direct sales companies as well as any business entrepreneur.

There will be training for all levels of leaders, as well as those who
want to advance into a leadership position. Response has been
phenomenal, and I know this will be a sell-out event. Register soon to guarantee your space!

Registration is easy and can be made through the DSWA website. For all the details, hotel reservation information, and to register, please click here to get started or copy and paste this link into your browser to get started: (www.dswa.org/1.html?p=ms85&w=reg09)

Join me at the DSWA Celebration! Don't miss this great opportunity to learn how you can take your business to the next level.

I look forward to seeing you there!

Ps: As an additional registration bonus, you will receive a complimentary 30-minute coaching session with me.

Direct Selling Women's Alliance
Coach Excellence Training

I am honored to be part of the faculty for DSWA Coach Excellence:

The First and Only Coach Training Program for the Direct Selling Profession.

The DSWA is passionate about providing the best and most cutting edge programs available. You know that coaching bridges the gap between learning and achieving. Based on DSWA’s world renowned Principle-Centered Coaching, the Coach Excellence Program is a complete certification course designed by master coaches, direct selling coaches and professionals. The Coach Excellence Program delivers the best mediums for excellence: in-classroom facilitation, one-on-one coaching, eLearning, web conferencing, and presentations.

For more information, and to register, visit:
http://www.mydswa.org/coach_excellence.asp

If you have any questions, please email me at:
Coach@successfultogethercoaching.com

Resources for Success Together

Easy Meals For Busy People

How do you have the time to cook meals at home when you are busy growing your businesses. The answer is Smoosh Meals. If you haven't heard of them, you don't know what you're missing.

Click here to see our Mealtime movie.

The Direct Selling Women's Alliance has been a core part of our journey in this profession.

They are currently offering a trial membership for just $1.00!

Click here to take advantage of this limited-time offer and experience the DSWA for yourself.

Pre-Divorce Wake Up Call

Are you unhappily married?
Is the romance gone?
Do you feel like you woke up one day in somebody else's life?
Are you thinking about divorce but wish there was another option?

My friend, and fellow Coach, Kassandra Vaughn has another option.
To learn more about her unique perspective and insights, visit
http://predivorcewakeupcall.blogspot.com/

BB and The Power of How

All coaches are not created equal. If you are ready to experience fresh coaching & insights to effortlessly move into the fulfilling, empowering life that is yours, then you are ready to connect with my friend and fellow Coach, BarBara Whorley.

For more information on BarBara's unique coaching perspective, with The Power of How, email BarBara@BarBaraWhorley.com.

Dare to Dream Radio

When I am in LA in a couple of weeks, I will have the privilege to be interviewed by the amazing Deborah Dachinger of Dare to Dream Radio.

I am really excited about this opportunity as Deborah is fresh, hip and an amazing person to share space with.

If you would like to listen in on her show, or listen to previous shows, please visit http://925kyhy.com

To learn more about Deborah, click here to check out her website.

The Deduction Diva

How much of your hard-earned income do you leave on the table each year?

The more you learn about the tax options and strategies available to you, the more you will retain. And, the happier your other half will be.

Vicky Collins, CPA is THE authority on home business taxes. Click here to receive Vicky's tax insights.

Your most important asset is you.

How well do you care for yourself? Are you there for everone else, and put you on a back-burner?

Having the most successful business and the most fulfilling life requires that you take the best possible care of you.

Angie Jones is my friend and a phenomenal trainer - Click here to see her movie. Don't forget to sign up for her newsletter - because you deserve it.

Direct Selling Live

Direct Selling meets social media. Say hello to the new networking site for Direct Sellers and Network Marketers. Check out
www.DirectSellingLive.com. This is the place to connect, share and boost your business.

Sophie Lhoste Healing

I recently connect with an amazing lady on Twitter. Meet Sophie.
If you would like to learn more about her healing techniques, visit
http://sophielhostehealing.com/

More Resources

Please visit our Resources Page for information on the great

Coaches and Trainers I am sharing the journey with.

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